We will get a new inspiring point of view long ago forgotten buried under many layers of years. We will surely gain a lot understanding how children see our adult world. With the the present digital cameras is quite easy to see what they see. How they are able to appriciate our good moods, as well as our ugly side when we get angry or impatient with them.
Gigants in their wonderful world when they see us happy. And in their terrible world every time they see our negative side.Their fresh brains are accurate enough to file our faces, tone of voice and body language. So ask your spouse to take you several pictures calculating the level of the height at which their eyes are.Also to record our voices commanding them to behave.
I’ve also found very useful to participate in games in which nobody has a noticable advantage; for instance spending just a quarter of an hour observing a chosen color.It would be highly recommended not to sound like their parents or teachers. On the contrary, a joyful game full of unsuspected surprise for everybody. In this way they will feel motivated being aware that we don’t knoe everything that their findings are as important as ours.This can be done at home and when the good weather permits outdoors. We will discover how we have understimated our children’s precise perceptions and great imagination. It is a win win family game.Not only they learn, but us as well. Let’s remember that we, their parents were chosen by them and not the other way round.Who has to behave is us parents. If we do this at least from their ages four to seven we will reinforce their self-esteem a lot. And we will be ready for their teen years by playing our role of parents and more importantly as their true friends, in that order.
Please spend a New Years’s Eve as pefect as possible never forgetting to have a loving physical contact with every member of your beautiful family.
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