An Indian Civilizational Perspective

Rishta Hai to Dard Bhi Hoga by Desh

[audio:Rishta hai to Dard Bhi Hoga.mp3]

Most of the people associate Pain with a break in the relationship.. or moving away.. or termination of one… but never IN the relationship itself. The genesis of pain is in the relation itself. I tried to explore this thought in this little piece. Please let me know what you think of it?

Audio File: Rishta hai to Dard Bhi Hoga.mp3

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21 Comments
  1. Anonymous says

    Jism ka ruhh se
    kagaj ka kalam se
    dor ka patang se
    rishtuon ki he duniya hai
    albatta yahan rakha kya hai
    jine ke liye?
    Kyoun ne ise ese kahen
    Jindgi hai tuo dard tuo hoga he!

  2. Anonymous says

    Jism ka ruhh se
    kagaj ka kalam se
    dor ka patang se
    rishtuon ki he duniya hai
    albatta yahan rakha kya hai
    jine ke liye?
    Kyoun ne ise ese kahen
    Jindgi hai tuo dard tuo hoga he!

  3. Desh says

    Hey nice poetry, anonymous! You should share your poetry here more often! And zara saamne to aao chaliye.. chup chup chhalne mein kya raaz hai?

  4. Desh says

    Hey nice poetry, anonymous! You should share your poetry here more often! And zara saamne to aao chaliye.. chup chup chhalne mein kya raaz hai?

  5. Gumnam (Mike) says

    Dard to unko hoga jinke paas dil hai – hazaroon lakhon baar tuta hai yeh – ab dard kaa abhaas bhi mushkil hai – magar dard to hoga hi kabhi – jab saamne apno ki mushkil hai – tuta hai magar dil to dil hai

  6. Desh says

    Kya baat hai Gumnaamji… aap bhi likha kijiye.. you write well 🙂

  7. Gumnam (Mike) says

    Dard to unko hoga jinke paas dil hai – hazaroon lakhon baar tuta hai yeh – ab dard kaa abhaas bhi mushkil hai – magar dard to hoga hi kabhi – jab saamne apno ki mushkil hai – tuta hai magar dil to dil hai

  8. Desh says

    Kya baat hai Gumnaamji… aap bhi likha kijiye.. you write well 🙂

  9. Gumnam says

    Manzil saamne thi – magar hum ruk gaye
    Mil Jaati to shayad thodi Khushi Hoti
    Magar Dard Se Gumnam Ka Rishta Purana Hai
    Zindgai Ka Kya – Yeh to bus aana Jana Hai
    Manzilon Ka Kya – Hume to bus Gumnamiyon mein kho Jaana Hai
    Toot te hain jub khwab to Dukh Hota Hai
    Magar Ishq ki Deewange mein bhi ek ajeeb sa sukh hota hai
    jo sakoon jhundte hain woh ishq nahin karte
    Meri Jaan Sacche Aashiqon Ke khwab kabhi nahin marte
    Na jaane hum kab se ghum pei rahe hai
    Apne zakhmon ko meh se si rahe hain – yeh hamare dil se pucho ke kaise hum jee rahe hain –
    Manzil ka kya – yeh to aana jaana hai
    Kabhi Khusi Kabhi Dard
    Tamana hai mil jaye woh – yeh apna khwab bahut purana hai
    Zindagi ka kya – Yeh to bus aana jaana hai

  10. Desh says

    Gumnam.. this is truly sensational, my friend! never knew you were such a poet?!! You gotta be here more often!

  11. Gumnam says

    Manzil saamne thi – magar hum ruk gaye
    Mil Jaati to shayad thodi Khushi Hoti
    Magar Dard Se Gumnam Ka Rishta Purana Hai
    Zindgai Ka Kya – Yeh to bus aana Jana Hai
    Manzilon Ka Kya – Hume to bus Gumnamiyon mein kho Jaana Hai
    Toot te hain jub khwab to Dukh Hota Hai
    Magar Ishq ki Deewange mein bhi ek ajeeb sa sukh hota hai
    jo sakoon jhundte hain woh ishq nahin karte
    Meri Jaan Sacche Aashiqon Ke khwab kabhi nahin marte
    Na jaane hum kab se ghum pei rahe hai
    Apne zakhmon ko meh se si rahe hain – yeh hamare dil se pucho ke kaise hum jee rahe hain –
    Manzil ka kya – yeh to aana jaana hai
    Kabhi Khusi Kabhi Dard
    Tamana hai mil jaye woh – yeh apna khwab bahut purana hai
    Zindagi ka kya – Yeh to bus aana jaana hai

  12. Desh says

    Gumnam.. this is truly sensational, my friend! never knew you were such a poet?!! You gotta be here more often!

  13. Gumnam says

    Desh I have been writing for over 25 years but never posted anything anywhere – the ones i wrote here were just triggered by what you said (Hardest ones are the ones you have to relate with what the other person is thinking and on the spot) – anytime you write or say anything I will make a new one as that way it is fun for sure – not all can be great (I will never pen anything I cannot relate to) but a thought can be worth a thousand words – funny used to challenge my wife to just give me a word any word and within minutes I would write something – Has been my hobby for a very long time – glad you find them worth reading

  14. Gumnam says

    Desh I have been writing for over 25 years but never posted anything anywhere – the ones i wrote here were just triggered by what you said (Hardest ones are the ones you have to relate with what the other person is thinking and on the spot) – anytime you write or say anything I will make a new one as that way it is fun for sure – not all can be great (I will never pen anything I cannot relate to) but a thought can be worth a thousand words – funny used to challenge my wife to just give me a word any word and within minutes I would write something – Has been my hobby for a very long time – glad you find them worth reading

  15. Desh says

    In that case… Gumnaam.. I will provoke you more and more.. 🙂 Bahut jamegi jab mil baithenge diwaane do!

  16. Desh says

    In that case… Gumnaam.. I will provoke you more and more.. 🙂 Bahut jamegi jab mil baithenge diwaane do!

  17. Anonymous says

    kyon ye kadam ruk ruk
    ke phir phir chale?
    kuon si manjil enhe bulati hai,
    is gumnam jahan mein koi tuo hai
    jo raha dikhlaye hai
    deepak ki low aur hawa ka jhonkha,
    door se aati phoolun ki khushboo
    ya bansoori ki dhvani
    ruke kadam phir chale manjil ko…

  18. Anonymous says

    kyon ye kadam ruk ruk
    ke phir phir chale?
    kuon si manjil enhe bulati hai,
    is gumnam jahan mein koi tuo hai
    jo raha dikhlaye hai
    deepak ki low aur hawa ka jhonkha,
    door se aati phoolun ki khushboo
    ya bansoori ki dhvani
    ruke kadam phir chale manjil ko…

  19. Gumnam says

    Itne Dinon ke baad teri yaad aayi hai – Jo Hoonthon pe naa thi woh Fariyad aayi hai

    Itne Dinon ke baad Kaise meri yaad aayi hai – Jaab paas thi tou pucha nahin Kabhi – Mere jaane ke baad kyon tujhe meri yaad aayi hai

    Kuch aaise masle thei ke fursat hi nahin mili, Parwane itne thei ke shama hi nahin jali – Fassane itne thei ke laila hi nahin mili

    Tu sota tha jaab jagti thi mein – teri yadoon mein bahut roti thi mein

    Gar yaad aayi hai tujhe meri to khush hota hoon mein – Fursat milne par aaj bhi rota hoon mein

    Jhoote tere waade – Jhotta tera rona – tujko paane se behtar hai shayad tujhe khona – aab kyon satata hai jab milna nahin kabhi – peeta tha tu tab bhi – peeta hai kya abhi

    Jaam mein aab saroor nahin – kaam mein barkat nahin
    Gumnaam ka hai kya – koi naam hi nahin
    Tere naam ke siva aab lab per koi naam hi nahin

    Aaa jaa shayad aab bhi waqt hai – lekin shayad zaamana bahut sakht hai

    Aaa jaata agar waqt hoota – gar yeh rista sirf faqt hota – Afsoos iss baat kaa nahin ke aab bhi peeta hoon mein – bus gumnam hoo kar hi aab jita hoon mein

    Bethi hoon aab bhi teri aas mein – magar lagta hai tu nahin aayega – barsoon ki yeh pyaas naa jaane kab tu bhujayega

    Aaana bahut chahta hoon mein magar aa nahin sakta – pyaasa mein bhi hoon magar shayad yeh pyaas bujha nahin sakta

  20. Gumnam says

    Itne Dinon ke baad teri yaad aayi hai – Jo Hoonthon pe naa thi woh Fariyad aayi hai

    Itne Dinon ke baad Kaise meri yaad aayi hai – Jaab paas thi tou pucha nahin Kabhi – Mere jaane ke baad kyon tujhe meri yaad aayi hai

    Kuch aaise masle thei ke fursat hi nahin mili, Parwane itne thei ke shama hi nahin jali – Fassane itne thei ke laila hi nahin mili

    Tu sota tha jaab jagti thi mein – teri yadoon mein bahut roti thi mein

    Gar yaad aayi hai tujhe meri to khush hota hoon mein – Fursat milne par aaj bhi rota hoon mein

    Jhoote tere waade – Jhotta tera rona – tujko paane se behtar hai shayad tujhe khona – aab kyon satata hai jab milna nahin kabhi – peeta tha tu tab bhi – peeta hai kya abhi

    Jaam mein aab saroor nahin – kaam mein barkat nahin
    Gumnaam ka hai kya – koi naam hi nahin
    Tere naam ke siva aab lab per koi naam hi nahin

    Aaa jaa shayad aab bhi waqt hai – lekin shayad zaamana bahut sakht hai

    Aaa jaata agar waqt hoota – gar yeh rista sirf faqt hota – Afsoos iss baat kaa nahin ke aab bhi peeta hoon mein – bus gumnam hoo kar hi aab jita hoon mein

    Bethi hoon aab bhi teri aas mein – magar lagta hai tu nahin aayega – barsoon ki yeh pyaas naa jaane kab tu bhujayega

    Aaana bahut chahta hoon mein magar aa nahin sakta – pyaasa mein bhi hoon magar shayad yeh pyaas bujha nahin sakta

  21. Gumnam says

    Itne Dinon ke baad teri yaad aayi hai – Jo Hoonthon pe naa thi woh Fariyad aayi hai

    Itne Dinon ke baad Kaise meri yaad aayi hai – Jaab paas thi tou pucha nahin Kabhi – Mere jaane ke baad kyon tujhe meri yaad aayi hai

    Kuch aaise masle thei ke fursat hi nahin mili, Parwane itne thei ke shama hi nahin jali – Fassane itne thei ke laila hi nahin mili

    Tu sota tha jaab jagti thi mein – teri yadoon mein bahut roti thi mein

    Gar yaad aayi hai tujhe meri to khush hota hoon mein – Fursat milne par aaj bhi rota hoon mein

    Jhoote tere waade – Jhotta tera rona – tujko paane se behtar hai shayad tujhe khona – aab kyon satata hai jab milna nahin kabhi – peeta tha tu tab bhi – peeta hai kya abhi

    Jaam mein aab saroor nahin – kaam mein barkat nahin
    Gumnaam ka hai kya – koi naam hi nahin
    Tere naam ke siva aab lab per koi naam hi nahin

    Aaa jaa shayad aab bhi waqt hai – lekin shayad zaamana bahut sakht hai

    Aaa jaata agar waqt hoota – gar yeh rista sirf faqt hota – Afsoos iss baat kaa nahin ke aab bhi peeta hoon mein – bus gumnam hoo kar hi aab jita hoon mein

    Bethi hoon aab bhi teri aas mein – magar lagta hai tu nahin aayega – barsoon ki yeh pyaas naa jaane kab tu bhujayega

    Aaana bahut chahta hoon mein magar aa nahin sakta – pyaasa mein bhi hoon magar shayad yeh pyaas bujha nahin sakta

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