India Journey and Geopolitics: Silence Within, Chaos Outside
My India journey started with Mahakumbh, followed by a conference on geopolitics. The world is changing, and we need to focus on the motivations behind these changes.
How much time does it take for an 11 year old girl to be approached by online predators once that kid goes online? Any guesses?
A 37-year old mom went undercover as an 11-year old girl to expose the dangers facing kids on social media platforms like Instagram, Snapchat, TikTok, and Kik. The team timed the responses and it was under a minute for the first like on the profile. And in less than two minutes, an older man started sexting-ing with her!
And, within a few days, when she posed as a 15 years old, she was asked to meet this older man who wanted to take her to a hotel room and wanted her because she was a virgin!
Here are some online sexual predators statistics that can scare the mind of anyone from here and here.
Left unsupervised, young children can be exposed to online predators, grooming, and psychological abuse within minutes.
Prosecutors in New Jersey did a sting operation called ‘Operation Open Door’, where 19 online sexual predators were caught. They were trying to lure underage boys and girls into sexual activities. The predators were using several applications to do that. Some are listed above.
The most dangerous apps were the ones which used the phones location – the GPS settings – so they could be traced.
Most, 98% actually, of the offenders do not know the victims in real life.
They use anonymity and social media’s reach to intrude into the kids’ lives. An in-depth report by the National Center for Missing and Exploited Children (NCMEC) is given here, which gives a detailed view of this world.
So what do the predators want? Well, per that report, they are looking for these takeaways.
To get these objectives they can do anything.
The whole process of “grooming” that an online predator follows a four step process. Their ways are very similar to serial killers who use the vulnerbilities of their victims to hook them into their trap. (Read Invaluable lessons from encounters with serial killers)
Earn Child’s trust – using compliments, shared interests, and likes and commenting
Understanding landscape – the predator tries to understand how engaged the guardians and if there is no supervision, then they go ahead more boldly.
Normalize sexuality – they send unsolicited explicit images of themselves and sometimes even of other kids.
Throw the bait – they start to go for the ‘jugular’ once they have hooked the kid. They use explicit photos, attempts to meet in person, engaging in role-play, or blackmailing the victim for financial gain.
Just simple steps as supervision and checking the access of a kid’s phone apps and being aware of what is going on in the world of predators can help one save many kids. At some age, kids need to be apprised of the dangers out there so they can decipher things when they encounter them when things are low for them.
No one can be with the kids all the time. There are certain times when one can be checking but it cannot be all the time. For those times the kids need to know the danger. These are times when the kids will have to grow up faster. The danger is just too overwhelming.
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This infographic details the whole world of online sexual predators,